LEADER 00000nim a22004695a 4500 003 MWT 005 20191125032826.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 150902s2010 xxunnn es i n eng d 020 9781615731152 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1615731156 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 029 https://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ rcb_9781615731152_180.jpeg 028 42 MWT11418190 037 11418190|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|erda 082 04 294.3/444|222 099 eAudiobook hoopla 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 Scheff, Leonard. 245 14 The cow in the parking lot :|ba Zen approach to overcoming anger|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cLeonard Scheff and Susan Edmiston. 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bHighBridge,|c2010. 264 2 |bMade available through hoopla 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (4hr., 45 min.)) : |bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 computer|bc|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 344 digital|hdigital recording|2rda 347 data file|2rda 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 1 Read by Susan Edmiston. 520 Imagine you're circling a crowded parking lot. Just as you spot a space, another driver races ahead and takes it. In a world of road rage, domestic violence, and professionally angry TV and radio commentators, your likely response is anger, even fury. Now imagine that instead of another driver, a cow has lumbered into that parking space and settled down. Your anger dissolves into bemusement. What has changed? Not just the occupant of the space but your perspective on the situation. We're a society swimming in anger, always about to snap. Using simple, understandable Buddhist principles, Scheff and Edmiston explain how to replace anger with happiness. They introduce the four kinds of demands that most commonly underlie anger (Important and Reasonable, Reasonable but Unimportant, Irrational, and Impossible), then show how to identify our real unmet demands, dissolve our anger, and change what happens when our buttons are pushed. We learn to laugh at ourselves, a powerful early step, and realize that others don't make us angry. Only we can make ourselves angry. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Anger|xReligious aspects|xBuddhism. 650 0 Anger|xPrevention. 700 1 Edmiston, Susan. 700 1 Mendieta, Bill.|4nrt 710 2 hoopla digital. 856 40 |uhttps://www.hoopladigital.com/title/ 11418190?utm_source=MARC|zInstantly available on hoopla. 856 42 |zCover image|uhttps://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ rcb_9781615731152_180.jpeg