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092    BIO|bZUMAN 
100 1  Zuman, Helen,|eauthor. 
245 10 Mating in captivity :|ba memoir /|cHelen Zuman. 
264  1 Berkeley, CA :|bShe Writes Press,|c2018. 
300    ix, 229 pages ;|c22 cm 
336    text|2rdacontent 
337    unmediated|2rdamedia 
338    volume|2rdacarrier 
520    When recent Harvard grad Helen Zuman moved to Zendik Farm 
       in 1999, she was thrilled to discover that the Zendiks 
       used go-betweens to arrange sexual assignations, or 
       “dates,” in cozy shacks just big enough for a double bed 
       and a nightstand. Here, it seemed, she could learn an 
       honest version of the mating dance and form a union free 
       of “Deathculture” lies. No one spoke the truth: Arol, the
       Farm’s matriarch, crushed any love that threatened her 
       hold on her followers’ hearts. An intimate look at a 
       transformative cult journey, Mating in Captivity shows how
       stories can trap us and free us, how miracles rise out of 
       crisis, how coercion feeds on forsaken self-trust 
600 10 Zuman, Helen. 
650  0 Cult members|zNorth Carolina|vBiography.