LEADER 00000nam 2200289 i 4500 005 20180912140136.0 008 180504s2018 cau 000 0aeng d 020 9781631523373|qpbk. 040 GCmBT|beng|erda|cGCmBT|dUtOrBLW 082 04 209.0973|aB|223 092 BIO|bZUMAN 100 1 Zuman, Helen,|eauthor. 245 10 Mating in captivity :|ba memoir /|cHelen Zuman. 264 1 Berkeley, CA :|bShe Writes Press,|c2018. 300 ix, 229 pages ;|c22 cm 336 text|2rdacontent 337 unmediated|2rdamedia 338 volume|2rdacarrier 520 When recent Harvard grad Helen Zuman moved to Zendik Farm in 1999, she was thrilled to discover that the Zendiks used go-betweens to arrange sexual assignations, or “dates,” in cozy shacks just big enough for a double bed and a nightstand. Here, it seemed, she could learn an honest version of the mating dance and form a union free of “Deathculture” lies. No one spoke the truth: Arol, the Farm’s matriarch, crushed any love that threatened her hold on her followers’ hearts. An intimate look at a transformative cult journey, Mating in Captivity shows how stories can trap us and free us, how miracles rise out of crisis, how coercion feeds on forsaken self-trust 600 10 Zuman, Helen. 650 0 Cult members|zNorth Carolina|vBiography.
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