LEADER 00000nim a22004815a 4500 003 MWT 005 20191125102204.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 181021s2018 xxunnn es i n eng d 020 9781684032778 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1684032776 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 029 https://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ nhb_9781684032778_180.jpeg 028 42 MWT12198550 037 12198550|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|erda 082 04 158.2|221 099 eAudiobook hoopla 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 McKay, Matthew. 245 10 Couple skills :|bmaking your relationship work|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cMatthew McKay, Patrick Fanning, Kim Paleg. 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bNew Harbinger Publications,|c2018. 264 2 |bMade available through hoopla 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (11hr., 52 min.)) : |bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 computer|bc|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 344 digital|hdigital recording|2rda 347 data file|2rda 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 1 Read by Susan Marlowe. 520 Love takes work, but, when it comes to relationships, it pays to work smarter. Couple Skills, Second Edition, revised and updated from the therapist-recommended classic, will show you how to work smarter in your relationship. You'll learn to improve communication, cope better with problems, and resolve conflicts with the one you love in healthy and creative ways. Each chapter teaches you an essential skill that supports greater relationship satisfaction and deeper intimacy. New to this edition is a chapter on using acceptance skills, developed from the revolutionary new acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). These new approaches will help you to accept your partner's feelings (and your own emotions) without judgment. Using these techniques will help you decide what you really value in your relationship and then commit to acting in ways that further those values every day. This revised and expanded edition of the classic relationship- skills book offers couples a comprehensive approach to better communication, greater intimacy, and deeper commitment. The new edition includes way to use acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) principles for better conflict management. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Introduction|xBASIC SKILLS: Listening|xExpressing feelings and scripting needs|xReciprocal reinforcement|xADVANCED SKILLS: Clean communication|xIdenfifying and changing cognitive distortions|xNegotiation|xProblem solving|xANGER AND CONFLICT: Assesing and changing strategies aversive strategies|xCoping with anger|xCoping with an angry partner|xTime out|xUNDERSTANDING AND CHANGING WHAT GOES WRONG: Identifying schemas about your partner|xOld tapes: separating your partner from your parents|xCoping with your defenses|xIdentifying your couple system|xIntervening in your system|xExpectations, rules, and acceptance. 650 0 Interpersonal relations. 650 0 Interpersonal communication. 700 1 Fanning, Patrick. 700 1 Paleg, Kim. 710 2 hoopla digital. 856 40 |uhttps://www.hoopladigital.com/title/ 12198550?utm_source=MARC|zInstantly available on hoopla. 856 42 |zCover image|uhttps://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ nhb_9781684032778_180.jpeg