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Author Neufeld, Gordon, author.

Title Hold on to your kids : why parents need to matter more than peers / Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., and Gabor Maté, M.D.

Edition Updated edition, Ballantine Books trade paperback edition.
Publication Info. New York : Ballantine Books Trade Paperbacks, [2014]
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 95th Street Adult Nonfiction  303.327 NEU    TRACE
 Naper Blvd. Adult Nonfiction  303.327 NEU    DUE 05-23-24
 Nichols Adult Nonfiction  303.327 NEU    IN TRANSIT +1 HOLD
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Description xvi, 332 pages ; 21 cm
Note "Updated edition with new chapters on raising children in a digital world!"--Cover.
Bibliography Includes bibliographical references and index.
Contents pt. 1. The phenomenon of peer orientation -- 1. Why parents matter more than ever -- 2. Skewed attachments, subverted instincts -- 3. Why we've come undone -- pt. 2. Sabotaged : how peer orientation undermines parenting -- 4. The power to parent is slipping away -- 5. From help to hindrance : when attachment works against us -- 6. Counterwill : why children become disobedient -- 7. The flatlining of culture -- pt. 3. Stuck in immaturity : how peer orientation stunts healthy development -- 8. The dangerous flight from feeling -- 9. Stuck in immaturity -- 10. A legacy of aggression -- 11. The making of bullies and victims -- 12. A sexual turn -- 13. Unteachable students -- pt. 4. How to hold on to our kids (or how to reclaim them) -- 14. Collecting our children -- 15. Preserve the ties that empower -- 16. Discipline that does not divide -- pt. 5. Preventing peer orientation -- 17. Don't court the competition -- 18. Re-create the attachment village -- pt. 6. A postscript for the digital age (how to hold on to kids in the era of the internet, cell phones, and videogames) --19. The digital revolution bent out of shape -- 20. A matter of timing -- Glossary.
Summary Argues that the growing phenomenon of peer orientation is undermining family cohesion and explains how parents and teachers can reverse the trend to serve as a source of guidance, love, and security for children. This updated edition also specifically addresses the unprecedented parenting challenges posed by the rise of digital devices and social media.
Subject Parent and child.
Parental influences.
Parenting.
Peer pressure in children.
Child development.
Children -- Social networks.
Internet and children.
Child development.
Children -- Social networks.
Internet and children.
Parent and child.
Parental influences.
Parenting.
Peer pressure in children.
Added Author Maté, Gabor, author.
ISBN 9780375760280 (trade paperback)
0375760288 (trade paperback)
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