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020    9781982120634|q(paperback) 
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092    646.77|bURY 
100 1  Ury, Logan,|eauthor. 
245 10 How to not die alone :|bthe surprising science that will 
       help you find love /|cLogan Ury. 
250    First Simon & Schuster hardcover edition. 
264  1 New York :|bSimon & Schuster,|c2021. 
300    335 pages ;|c24 cm 
336    text|btxt|2rdacontent 
337    unmediated|bn|2rdamedia 
338    volume|bnc|2rdacarrier 
504    Includes bibliographical references (pages 319-335). 
520    "Love, as the saying goes, make fools of us all. But 
       behavioral scientist and dating coach Logan Ury wants to 
       fix that. A lasting, loving relationship doesn't just 
       happen. It's the result of a series of decisions: when to 
       date, who to date, who to settle down with, if you should 
       break up, and everything in between. Very often, we don't 
       understand why we're making certain decisions, and that 
       causes us to make mistakes. And our current dating 
       environment-with its overwhelming amount of options and 
       constant pressure to make the right choice-only makes 
       those decisions harder. Logan studied psychology at 
       Harvard and spent years researching relationships. Here, 
       she explains expectations, emotions, and other invisible 
       forces that drive our faulty decision-making. But 
       awareness on its own doesn't lead to action. (Knowing you 
       shouldn't date "bad boys" or "manic pixie dream girls" 
       doesn't make them any less appealing.) You have to do 
       something. And Logan shows you how. Each chapter focuses 
       on a different decision, from the first date on, and 
       includes big ideas from behavioral science, original 
       research, hands-on exercises, and stories about people 
       just like you, to help you find-and keep-love. You'll 
       learn: -What's really holding you back in dating-it's not 
       what you think (and how to overcome it) -How to meet 
       people in real life (and how to not come off as creepy) -
       Why your current dating app filters won't find a great 
       match (and how to fix them) -Why you should always go on a
       second date (unless you're getting serious serial killer 
       vibes) -Why "The One" doesn't exist (but you'll find love 
       anyway) ...and much more!"--|cProvided by publisher. 
650  0 Dating (Social customs)|xPsychological aspects. 
650  0 Interpersonal relations|xPsychological aspects. 
650  0 Intimacy (Psychology)