LEADER 00000nam 2200373 i 4500 001 sky298110880 003 SKY 005 20191202122513.0 008 191008r20192019nyua b 001 0 eng d 010 bl2019030808 015 GBB9B6927|2bnb 020 9781541724389 020 1541724380 040 NjBwBT|beng|erda|cNjBwBT|dSKYRV|dUtOrBLW 082 04 153.8/52|223 092 153.852|bMAR 100 1 Martin, Stephen,|eauthor. 245 10 Messengers :|bwho we listen to, who we don't, and why / |cStephen Martin and Joseph Marks. 250 First US edition. 264 1 New York :|bPublicAffairs,|c2019. 300 vi, 328 pages :|billustrations ;|c25 cm 336 text|2rdacontent 337 unmediated|2rdamedia 338 volume|2rdacarrier 504 Includes bibliographical references and index. 505 00 |tSocio-economic position--Competence--Dominance-- Attractiveness--Warmth--Vulnerability--Trustworthiness-- Charisma 520 Why are self-confident ignoramuses so often believed? Why are thoughtful experts so often given the cold shoulder? And why do apparently irrelevant details such as a person's height, their relative wealth, or their Facebook photo influence whether or not we trust what they are saying? When deciding whether or not someone is worth listening to, we think we carefully weigh their words and arguments. But those are far from being the only factors that hold sway with us. In this groundbreaking new book behavioural experts Stephen Martin and Joseph Marks pinpoint the eight powerful traits that determine who gets heard and who gets ignored. They show how such apparently irrelevant details as a person's appearance or their financial status influence our response to what they have to say, regardless of its wisdom or foolishness. They explain how trust is won, even when it may not be deserved. They analyse the nature of the charismatic speaker and the verbal and physical cues they employ. And they demonstrate how the tiniest of signals - from the shoes we wear, to the pitch of our voice and the warmth of our smile - can transform how others perceive us and so determine whether they are prepared to pay heed to what we have to say. Above all, Martin and Marks show how looking and sounding right is often far more persuasive than actually being right. In a world of ambiguity, uncertainty and fake news they compellingly demonstrate how, increasingly, the Messenger is the Message. 650 0 Influence (Psychology) 650 0 Communication. 650 0 Truthfulness and falsehood. 700 1 Marks, Joseph,|eauthor. 775 08 |iReproduction of (manifestation):|aMartin, Stephen. |tMessengers|dLondon : Random House Books, 2019 |z9781847942364
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