LEADER 00000cam a2200385Ia 4500 001 sky220505517 003 SKY 005 20141231191201.0 008 101020t20102010nyua 000 0 eng 010 oc2010081583 020 9780143118442 (pbk.) 020 0143118447 (pbk.) 035 (OCoLC)671252867 040 OCP|cOCP|dJRS|dHMG|dEOW|dSKYRV|dUtOrBLW|erda 082 04 158.2|222 092 158.2|bSTO 100 1 Stone, Douglas,|d1958- 245 10 Difficult conversations :|bhow to discuss what matters most /|cDouglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen. 250 Tenth anniversary edition, [second edition]. 264 1 New York :|bPenguin Books,|c[2010] 264 4 |c©2010 300 xxxiii, 315 pages :|billustrations ;|c20 cm 336 text|btxt|2rdacontent 337 unmediated|bn|2rdamedia 338 volume|bnc|2rdacarrier 500 "With a foreword by Roger Fisher"--Cover. 500 "Updated with answers to the 10 most frequently asked questions about difficult conversations"--Cover. 500 First published in the U.S.A. by Viking Penguin, 1999. 505 0 Sort out the three conversations -- Stop arguing about who's right: explore each other's stories -- Don't assume they meant it: disentangle intent from impact -- Abandon blame: map the contribution system -- Have your feelings (or they will have you) -- Ground your identity: ask yourself what's at stake -- What's your purpose?: when to raise it and when to let go -- Getting started: begin from the third story -- Learning: listen from the inside out -- Expression: speak for yourself with clarity and power -- Problem-solving: take the lead -- Putting it all together -- Ten questions people ask about difficult conversations -- A road map to Difficult conversations. 650 0 Interpersonal communication. 650 0 Interpersonal communication|vCase studies. 700 1 Heen, Sheila. 700 1 Patton, Bruce.
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