LEADER 00000nim a22004815a 4500 003 MWT 005 20191125022901.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 160407s2013 xxunnn es i n eng d 020 9781624613401 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1624613403 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 029 https://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ isp_9781624613401_180.jpeg 028 42 MWT11609752 037 11609752|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|erda 082 00 362.734|223 099 eAudiobook hoopla 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 Holden, Lori,|d1962- 245 14 The open-hearted way to open adoption :|bhelping your child grow up whole|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cLori Holden with Crystal Hass. 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bVibrance Press,|c2013. 264 2 |bMade available through hoopla 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (6hr., 40 min.)) : |bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 computer|bc|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 344 digital|hdigital recording|2rda 347 data file|2rda 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 1 Read by Meredith Mitchell. 520 Prior to 1990, fewer than five percent of domestic infant adoptions were open. In 2012, ninety percent or more of adoption agencies are recommending open adoption. Yet these agencies do not often or adequately prepare either adopting parents or birth parents for the road ahead of them! The adult parties in open adoptions are left floundering. There are many resources on why to do open adoption, but what about how? Open adoption isn't just something parents do when they exchange photos, send emails, share a visit. It's a lifestyle that may feel intrusive at times, be difficult or inconvenient at other times. Tensions can arise even in the best of circumstances. But knowing how to handle these situations and how to continue to make arrangements work for the child involved is paramount. This book offers readers the tools and the insight to do just that. It covers common open-adoption situations and how real families have navigated typical issues successfully. Like all useful parenting books, it provides parents with the tools to come to answers on their own, and answers questions that might not yet have come up. Through their own stories and those of other families of open adoption, Lori and Crystal review the secrets to success, the pitfalls and challenges, the joys and triumphs. By putting the adopted child at the center, families can come to enjoy the benefits of open adoption and mitigate the challenges that may arise. More than a how-to, this book shares a mindset, a heartset, that can be learned and internalized, so parents can choose to act out of love and honesty throughout their child's growing up years, helping that child to grow up whole. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Open adoption. 650 0 Birthparents. 650 0 Adoptive parents. 650 0 Adopted children|xFamily relationships. 700 1 Hass, Crystal,|d1979- 710 2 hoopla digital. 856 40 |uhttps://www.hoopladigital.com/title/ 11609752?utm_source=MARC|zInstantly available on hoopla. 856 42 |zCover image|uhttps://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ isp_9781624613401_180.jpeg