Why we women love to run the show -- Wired to control -- Our clamoring culture -- Seduction of self -- Domestic director or tin-pot dictator? running the show at home -- Managing your man -- Micromanaging instead of mothering -- Hovering over the home -- When your schedule screams (and you want to scream too) -- How to lose control and keep the faith -- Due to circumstances beyond our control -- Soul control -- Embracing your what-evvv-er -- Living the relinquished life.