LEADER 00000nim a22004815a 4500 003 MWT 005 20200529121552.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 200131s2020 xxunnn es i n eng d 020 9781494545697 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1494545691 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 029 https://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ ttm_9781494545697_180.jpeg 028 42 MWT12682539 037 12682539|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|erda 082 04 616.86/03|223 099 eAudiobook hoopla 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 Berger, Allen,|d1952-|eauthor. 245 10 12 smart things to do when the booze and drugs are gone : |bchoosing emotional sobriety through self-awareness and right action|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cAllen Berger. 246 3 Twelve smart things to do when the booze and drugs are gone 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bTantor Audio,|c2020. 264 2 |bMade available through hoopla 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (5hr., 24 min.)) : |bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 computer|bc|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 344 digital|hdigital recording|2rda 347 data file|2rda 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 0 Read by Matthew Boston. 520 The author of the classic 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery offers a fresh list of "smart" things to do to attain and sustain emotional sobriety. Whether it's called "dry drunk" or "white knuckle sobriety," it's that stage in recovery when we realize that "putting the plug in the jug" isn't enough. The next step is taking responsibility for the emotional immaturity that fuels our addictive personality and has a tremendous impact on ourselves and others. Allen Berger, PhD, draws on the teachings of Bill W. and psychotherapy pioneers to offer twelve hallmarks of emotional sobriety that, when practiced, give people the confidence to be accountable for their behavior, ask for what they want and need, and grow and develop a deeper trust in the process of life. These smart things include: understanding who you are and what's important to you; learning not to take others' reactions personally; trusting your inner compass; and taking responsibility for your reactions to problematic situations. It is in these practices that we find release from what Bill W. described as an "absolute dependency" on people or circumstances, and develop the tools to find prestige, security, and belonging within. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Addicts|xRehabilitation. 650 0 Emotional maturity. 650 0 Self-help techniques. 700 1 Boston, Matthew,|enarrator. 710 2 hoopla digital. 856 40 |uhttps://www.hoopladigital.com/title/ 12682539?utm_source=MARC|zInstantly available on hoopla. 856 42 |zCover image|uhttps://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ ttm_9781494545697_180.jpeg