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100 1  Adams, Jane,|d1940- 
245 10 When our grown kids disappoint us :|bletting go of their 
       problems, loving them anyway, and getting on with our 
       lives|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cJane Adams. 
250    Unabridged. 
264  1 [United States] :|bTantor Audio,|c2016. 
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511 1  Read by Jane Adams. 
520    How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our
       children clash with reality? What can we do for our twenty
       - and even thirty-somethings who can't seem to grow up? 
       Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, 
       their parents, are frightened, frustrated, resentful, 
       embarrassed, and especially, disappointed? In this 
       groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been 
       chronicling the lives of American families for over two 
       decades confronts our deepest concerns when our grown kids
       have failed to thrive. She listens to a generation that 
       "did everything right" and expected its children to grow 
       into happy, healthy, successful adults. But they haven't, 
       at least not yet-and meanwhile, we're letting their 
       problems threaten our health, marriages, security, freedom,
       careers, retirement, and other family relationships. With 
       warmth, empathy, and perspective, Dr. Adams offers a 
       positive, life-affirming message to parents who are still 
       trying to "fix" their adult children - Stop! She shows us 
       how to separate from their problems without separating 
       from them, and how to be a positive force in their lives 
       while getting on with our own. 
538    Mode of access: World Wide Web. 
650  0 Parent and adult child. 
650  0 Adult children|xFamily relationships. 
700 1  Adams, Jane. 
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