LEADER 00000nim a22004575a 4500 003 MWT 005 20191125043031.0 006 m o h 007 sz zunnnnnuned 007 cr nnannnuuuua 008 160424s2016 xxunnn es i n eng d 020 9781515924548 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 020 1515924548 (sound recording : hoopla Audio Book) 029 https://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ ttm_9781515924548_180.jpeg 028 42 MWT11626092 037 11626092|bMidwest Tape, LLC|nhttp://www.midwesttapes.com 040 Midwest|erda 082 00 306.874|221 099 eAudiobook hoopla 099 eAudiobook hoopla 100 1 Adams, Jane,|d1940- 245 10 When our grown kids disappoint us :|bletting go of their problems, loving them anyway, and getting on with our lives|h[Hoopla electronic resource] /|cJane Adams. 250 Unabridged. 264 1 [United States] :|bTantor Audio,|c2016. 264 2 |bMade available through hoopla 300 1 online resource (1 audio file (4hr., 30 min.)) : |bdigital. 336 spoken word|bspw|2rdacontent 337 computer|bc|2rdamedia 338 online resource|bcr|2rdacarrier 344 digital|hdigital recording|2rda 347 data file|2rda 506 Digital content provided by hoopla. 511 1 Read by Jane Adams. 520 How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our children clash with reality? What can we do for our twenty - and even thirty-somethings who can't seem to grow up? Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, their parents, are frightened, frustrated, resentful, embarrassed, and especially, disappointed? In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns when our grown kids have failed to thrive. She listens to a generation that "did everything right" and expected its children to grow into happy, healthy, successful adults. But they haven't, at least not yet-and meanwhile, we're letting their problems threaten our health, marriages, security, freedom, careers, retirement, and other family relationships. With warmth, empathy, and perspective, Dr. Adams offers a positive, life-affirming message to parents who are still trying to "fix" their adult children - Stop! She shows us how to separate from their problems without separating from them, and how to be a positive force in their lives while getting on with our own. 538 Mode of access: World Wide Web. 650 0 Parent and adult child. 650 0 Adult children|xFamily relationships. 700 1 Adams, Jane. 710 2 hoopla digital. 856 40 |uhttps://www.hoopladigital.com/title/ 11626092?utm_source=MARC|zInstantly available on hoopla. 856 42 |zCover image|uhttps://d2snwnmzyr8jue.cloudfront.net/ ttm_9781515924548_180.jpeg